✍✍ *FOOD FOR THOUGHT* 📝📝
```1. 👉No matter how beautiful and handsome you're just remember Baboon and Gorillas also attract tourists .
✌Stop Boasting✌
2.👉No matter how big and strong you are, you will not carry yourself to your Grave .
✌Be Humble✌
3.👉No matter how tall you are, you can never see tomorrow.
✌Be Patient✌
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Wrong philosophies about life
WRONG PHILOSOPHIES
1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it be. You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so don't leave it to chance.```
2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre to philosophy.```
3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to become wise because the day you wake up and wise up is the day you CHANGE!```
1. *"WHATEVER WILL BE, WILL BE"*
```Whatever will be will not be; you have to make it be. You have a part to play in what will be in your life, so don't leave it to chance.```
2. *"HALF BREAD IS BETTER THAN NONE!"*
```Why settle for half bread when you can get a full bread or even own a bakery. This is a limiting belief that positions you to settle for less and it is a mediocre to philosophy.```
3. *"A FOOL AT FORTY IS A FOOL FOREVER"*
```A fool at any age can be a fool forever if he refuses to let go of his foolishness. It is never too late to become wise because the day you wake up and wise up is the day you CHANGE!```
Lesson for all women for a better life
*A GOOD WOMAN, MAKES A GOOD WIFE AND A GOOD WIFE BECOMES A GOOD MOTHER.*
*A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW*
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed
ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.
_Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided._
*A GOOD MOTHER GIVE BIRTH TO A GOOD CHILD. IF YOU WANT TO BE ONE EMULATE THESE STEPS BELOW*
1). Never raise your voice for any reason to your husband. Its a sign of disrespect.
2). Don't expose your husband's weaknesses to your family and friends. It will bounce back at you. You are each other's keeper.
3). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your husband, you never know how your husband will interpret
them. Defensive women don't have a happy home.
4). Never compare your husband to other men, you've no idea what their life is all about. If you attack his Ego, his Love for you will diminish.
5). Never ill treat your husband's friends because you don't like them, the person who's supposed to get rid of them is your husband.
6). Never forget that your husband married you, not your maid or anyone else. Do your duties.
7). Never assign anyone to give attention to your husband, people may do everything else but your husband is your own responsibility.
8). Never blame your husband if he comes back home empty handed. Rather encourage him.
9). Never be a wasteful wife, your husband's sweat is too precious to be wasted.
10). Never pretend to be sick for the purpose of denying your husband's right. You must give it to him how he wants it. It's very important to Men, if you keep denying him, it is a matter of time before another woman takes over that duty. No man can withstand on starvation for too long (even the anointed
ones)
11). Never compare your husband to your one time Ex-lover. Your home may Never recover from it if you do.
12). Never answer for your husband in public opinion polls, let him handle what is directed to him although he may answer for you in public opinion polls.
13). Never shout or challenge your husband in front of children. Wise Women don't do that.
14). Don't forget to check the smartness of your husband before he checks out.
15). Never allow your friends to be too close to your husband.
16). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your husband is always surrounded by women who took their time on their looks.
17). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word. You must Leave if you want to Cleave.
18). Never base your love on monetary things. Will you still submit to him even if you earn more money than him?
19). Don't forget that husbands want attention and good listeners, never be too busy for him. Good communication is the bed rock of every happy home.
20). If your idea worked better than his, never compare yourself to him. Its always team work.
21). Don't be too judgmental to your husband. No man wants a Nagging wife.
22). A lazy wife is a careless wife. She doesn't even know that her body needs a bath.
23). Does your husband like a kind of cooked food? Try to change your cooking. No man jokes with food.
24). Never be too demanding to your husband, enjoy every moment, resource as it comes.
25). Make a glass of water the very first welcome to your husband and everyone entering your home. Sweetness of attitude is true beauty.
26). Don't associate with women who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.
27). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.
28). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.
29). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your family for any reason.
30). A prayerful wife is a better equipped wife,pray always for your husband and family.
_Send it to every woman you know. You never know whose marriage you are about to save. And to every man so that the women in their lives can be better guided._
Living Happily involves
5 Simple Rules For Happiness:
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
1. Free your heart from hatred.
2. Free your mind from worries.
3. Live simply.
4. Give more.
5. Expect less.
Life After the age of 60
!,*LIFE AFTER 60*
An interesting article.
*_Life can begin at 60,_*
It is all in your hands!
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years of age, owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinions. But, it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after retirement pleasant.
1. *Never say I am aged'* :
There are three ages, chronological, biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions; the third is how old we feel we are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.
2. *Health is Wealth:*
If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance coverage.
3. *Money is important:*
Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But, never take it for granted.
4. *Relaxation and Recreation:*
The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.
5. *Time is Precious:*
It is almost like holding a horses' reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment; live it fully, now, in the present time.
6. *Change is the only Permanent Thing:*
We should accept change - it is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join in the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.
7. *Enlightened Selfishness:*
All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and the happiness we derive by doing good for others, without expecting anything in return. Perform a random act of kindness daily.
8. *Forget and Forgive:*
Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will be only increasing our blood pressure.
9. *Everything has a Purpose:*
Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and is right in his own way.
10. *Overcome the Fear of Death:*
We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will go
An interesting article.
*_Life can begin at 60,_*
It is all in your hands!
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years of age, owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinions. But, it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after retirement pleasant.
1. *Never say I am aged'* :
There are three ages, chronological, biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions; the third is how old we feel we are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.
2. *Health is Wealth:*
If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance coverage.
3. *Money is important:*
Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But, never take it for granted.
4. *Relaxation and Recreation:*
The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.
5. *Time is Precious:*
It is almost like holding a horses' reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment; live it fully, now, in the present time.
6. *Change is the only Permanent Thing:*
We should accept change - it is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join in the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.
7. *Enlightened Selfishness:*
All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and the happiness we derive by doing good for others, without expecting anything in return. Perform a random act of kindness daily.
8. *Forget and Forgive:*
Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will be only increasing our blood pressure.
9. *Everything has a Purpose:*
Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and is right in his own way.
10. *Overcome the Fear of Death:*
We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will go
Tracing a Missing Phone
HOW TO TRACE A MISSING OR STOLEN PHONE
If you lose your mobile phone, you can trace it without going to the police.
Most of us always fear that our phones may be stolen at any time.
Each phone carries a unique
IMEI no. i.e. International Mobile Equipment Identity No which can be used to track it anywhere in the world.
This is how it works:
1. Dial *#06# from your mobile.
2. Your mobile phone shows a unique 15 digit.
3. Note down this number at a secure place except in your mobile phone itself as this is the number which will help trace your phone in case of theft.
4. Once stolen, just E-mail this 15 digit IMEI No. to cop@vsnl.net with details as stated below:
Your name:____________________
Address:______________________
Phone model:_________________
Make:_________________________
Last used No.:_________________
E-mail for communication:_____
Missed date:___________________
IMEI No :_______________________
5.Your Mobile will be traced within next 24 hours via a complex system of GPRS and internet, You will find where your hand set is being operated and the new user's No. will be sent to your email.b
6. After this, you can inform the Police with the details you now have.
PLEASE SHARE THIS VERY IMPORTANT MESSAGE. Hope it will help you someday.
Be sure of the true situation before concluding or taking action
A cat was so faithful that the woman could leave her baby
with it & go out to attend other matters. She always returned
to find the child soundly asleep with the cat faithfully
watching over him.
One day something tragic happened. The woman as usual,
left the baby in the "hands" of this faithful cat & went out
shopping. When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty
scene, there was a total mess. The baby's cot was
dismantled; his nappies & clothes torn to shreds with blood
stains all over the bedroom where she left the child & the cat.
Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the
baby.
All of a sudden, she saw the faithful cat emerging from under
the bed. It was covered with blood and licking its mouth as it
had just finished a delicious meal.
The woman went berserk & assumed that the cat had
devoured her baby.
Without much thought she beat the cat with a wood to death.
But as she continued searching for the"remains" of her child,
she beheld another scene. Close to the bed was the baby,
who although lying bare on the floor, was safe & under the
bed the body of a snake torn to pieces in what must have
been a fierce battle between it & the cat, which was now
dead.
Then reality dawned on the woman who now began to
understand what took place in her absence. The cat fought to
protect the baby from the ravenous snake.
It was too late for her now to make amends because in her
impatience and anger,she had killed the faithful cat.
How often have we misjudged people & torn them to shreds
with harsh words and deeds before we have had time to
evaluate the situation? It is called SIN OF PRESUMPTION
Presuming things our way without taking the trouble to find
out exactly what the situation really is. Little patience can
drastically reduce major life long mistakes. Who Are you
misjudging right now. Don't think what you think others are
thinking. Take time to get the whole truth. Pls be patient wt ppl lest u live 2 regret ur actions against them. Be quick 2 hear but slow 2 respond and become angry.
Share if you're touched and use it as a LESSON!
with it & go out to attend other matters. She always returned
to find the child soundly asleep with the cat faithfully
watching over him.
One day something tragic happened. The woman as usual,
left the baby in the "hands" of this faithful cat & went out
shopping. When she returned, she discovered rather a nasty
scene, there was a total mess. The baby's cot was
dismantled; his nappies & clothes torn to shreds with blood
stains all over the bedroom where she left the child & the cat.
Shocked, the woman wailed as she began looking for the
baby.
All of a sudden, she saw the faithful cat emerging from under
the bed. It was covered with blood and licking its mouth as it
had just finished a delicious meal.
The woman went berserk & assumed that the cat had
devoured her baby.
Without much thought she beat the cat with a wood to death.
But as she continued searching for the"remains" of her child,
she beheld another scene. Close to the bed was the baby,
who although lying bare on the floor, was safe & under the
bed the body of a snake torn to pieces in what must have
been a fierce battle between it & the cat, which was now
dead.
Then reality dawned on the woman who now began to
understand what took place in her absence. The cat fought to
protect the baby from the ravenous snake.
It was too late for her now to make amends because in her
impatience and anger,she had killed the faithful cat.
How often have we misjudged people & torn them to shreds
with harsh words and deeds before we have had time to
evaluate the situation? It is called SIN OF PRESUMPTION
Presuming things our way without taking the trouble to find
out exactly what the situation really is. Little patience can
drastically reduce major life long mistakes. Who Are you
misjudging right now. Don't think what you think others are
thinking. Take time to get the whole truth. Pls be patient wt ppl lest u live 2 regret ur actions against them. Be quick 2 hear but slow 2 respond and become angry.
Share if you're touched and use it as a LESSON!
Focus and determination beget success
One day, a young soldier walked up to a well decorated senior officer in the army and asked him "Sir, what is the secret of your success in the army?" I want to be successful too.
The officer looked at the young soldier steadily for about 3 minutes and gave him a life threatening order. He gave the young soldier a cup full of water and told him to walk round the training field five times. He clearly told him that his life depends on it. That if a drop of water fall from the cup, another soldier would shoot him on the head. Four soldiers were strategically positioned to shoot him down once a drop of water fall from the cup.
Seeing how serious the whole thing turned out, he took the cup full of water and went out to complete his assignment. The young soldier carefully walked round the training field five full times without letting a drop fall from the cup. At the completion of the task, he returned the full cup back to the senior officer.
When the man saw his commitment to preserve his life by not allowing a drop of water out of the cup, he asked him the following questions...
Did you see those half naked girls dancing at the mammy market?
The young soldier replied No
Did you see those soldiers playing football in the field?
The young soldier replied No
What about those fighting across the other side of the field?
The young soldier replied No
Then, the officer looked at him and told him that if you keep focus on your task, you will succeed and also preserve your life. At that point, the young soldier left happily.
Lesson:
1. If you must succeed in life, you must clearly write out the area or areas you need to succeed in.
2. You must clearly spell out your plan of action with all the process to achieving your goals.
3. A lot of distractions will come in many beautiful colours on your path to success. How you deal with them determine how you will end.
4. Success has a bitter price. You must pay it fully. There is no shortcut to success.
5. Whether you succeed or not, your life is at stake.
Finally, those who distract you are the same people who will celebrate your failure if you eventually fail.
Make your 2017 a fruitful one by being focused on your goals.
Best wishes
The officer looked at the young soldier steadily for about 3 minutes and gave him a life threatening order. He gave the young soldier a cup full of water and told him to walk round the training field five times. He clearly told him that his life depends on it. That if a drop of water fall from the cup, another soldier would shoot him on the head. Four soldiers were strategically positioned to shoot him down once a drop of water fall from the cup.
Seeing how serious the whole thing turned out, he took the cup full of water and went out to complete his assignment. The young soldier carefully walked round the training field five full times without letting a drop fall from the cup. At the completion of the task, he returned the full cup back to the senior officer.
When the man saw his commitment to preserve his life by not allowing a drop of water out of the cup, he asked him the following questions...
Did you see those half naked girls dancing at the mammy market?
The young soldier replied No
Did you see those soldiers playing football in the field?
The young soldier replied No
What about those fighting across the other side of the field?
The young soldier replied No
Then, the officer looked at him and told him that if you keep focus on your task, you will succeed and also preserve your life. At that point, the young soldier left happily.
Lesson:
1. If you must succeed in life, you must clearly write out the area or areas you need to succeed in.
2. You must clearly spell out your plan of action with all the process to achieving your goals.
3. A lot of distractions will come in many beautiful colours on your path to success. How you deal with them determine how you will end.
4. Success has a bitter price. You must pay it fully. There is no shortcut to success.
5. Whether you succeed or not, your life is at stake.
Finally, those who distract you are the same people who will celebrate your failure if you eventually fail.
Make your 2017 a fruitful one by being focused on your goals.
Best wishes
Know where you are coming from before you take certain decision.
A 30 year-old son decided to admit his father into an old peoples home as desired by his WIFE. He brought the father in a car to an old peoples home run by a Catholic priest.
Then appeared this elderly priest, who came out to have a long chat with the old man. The son wondered and asked the priest whether he knew his father before, since they were talking as though they knew each other. The priest replied yes, and continued, "He came here 30 years back and took with him a very sick orphan boy who everyone else had rejected for adoption. This man gave that boy home and save his life. He told us this little boy deserves better, I'll dedicate my life to make him the wealthiest young man when he turns 25. The priest continued, "I don't know how long you have known him but i can tell you he is a good man and I am glad to inform you that you were the sick boy. The boy on hearing this, fell on his knees and begged the old man for forgiveness. The old man looked at him with a smile and said, "Son I have forgiven you. You threw me out of my own home because of your wife. Take the house, but know that I have removed you from my documents as the sole heir of my empire. I have willed all my properties to this orphanage where I now belong."
At the zenith of your success don't forget where you a\re coming from, if not you will miss your destination and lose your Crown. I pray we will not forget those who helped us to get to the top. Have a Blissful Day . !!!
Then appeared this elderly priest, who came out to have a long chat with the old man. The son wondered and asked the priest whether he knew his father before, since they were talking as though they knew each other. The priest replied yes, and continued, "He came here 30 years back and took with him a very sick orphan boy who everyone else had rejected for adoption. This man gave that boy home and save his life. He told us this little boy deserves better, I'll dedicate my life to make him the wealthiest young man when he turns 25. The priest continued, "I don't know how long you have known him but i can tell you he is a good man and I am glad to inform you that you were the sick boy. The boy on hearing this, fell on his knees and begged the old man for forgiveness. The old man looked at him with a smile and said, "Son I have forgiven you. You threw me out of my own home because of your wife. Take the house, but know that I have removed you from my documents as the sole heir of my empire. I have willed all my properties to this orphanage where I now belong."
At the zenith of your success don't forget where you a\re coming from, if not you will miss your destination and lose your Crown. I pray we will not forget those who helped us to get to the top. Have a Blissful Day . !!!
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